“We live in deeds not years, in thoughts , not breaths; In feelings. not in figures on a dial. We should count time by heart throbs. He most lives who thinks the most-feels the noblest-acts the best.” Philip James Bailey
This is a topic that would allow us to go on for months and possibly years. It would shock many of us to realize we are ever guilty of ungratefulness. None of us does it on purpose or plans it. It just happens. It happens too frequently nowadays. If we could look at the small things that go by unnoticed, it might help us catch a view of the larger things. A simple thing like holding a door is loaded with kindness. We just need to pay better attention to these minor acts of kindness which not only bring comfort to us but satisfaction to the person displaying the kindness.
“Graciousness is more than good manners. It is more than courtesy. It is the etiquette of the soul. True graciousness has such a divine quality we feel it is something that comes through us and not from us.” Fred Smith